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Weaponized Incompetence

Intentionally doing a task poorly so one is never asked to do it again.

The Mental Load

He wants to split the rent 50/50 but I have to do 100% of the "Emotional Labor"

we moved in together to be DINKs and save money. great, right?
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Weaponized Incompetence

My husband "surprised" me with a trip to his parents' house for my birthday

it was my 30th birthday. i told him i wanted a spa
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Weaponized Incompetence

My husband "helps" with the kitchen but leaves a "hidden tax" for me every morning

i (32F) wake up at 6am to get the kids ready. my
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The Mental Load

My husband refuses to baby-proof the house because it "ruins the aesthetic"

our daughter is 10 months old and crawling everywhere. i asked my
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