My ex-husband is "Orbiting" my LinkedIn profile 6 months after the divorce

we finalized the divorce in June. total Clean Break, or so i thought. but every single week, i get a notification that 'Mark' has viewed my LinkedIn profile. he doesn't message. he doesn't email. he just... watches. it’s like he’s waiting for me to fail or get a promotion so he can feel something. it’s giving me major Love Haze vibes and i can't move on.

The Breakdown:

  • He Said: He’s "just curious" how she’s doing professionally.
  • She Said: She feels stalked. The digital breadcrumbs are keeping the wound open.

The Science: This is Digital Stalking as a form of Avoidant Attachment. He can't handle the intimacy of a relationship, but he can't handle the finality of the loss either.

The Solution: Block him on everything. LinkedIn has a "Privacy Mode," but the real solution is the No-Contact Rule. If he’s out of your life, he doesn't get to watch the "Main Character" arc of your new career.