He ghosted me in 2024. Now he’s back with a 'Hey' text like it’s nothing.

The Confession: "guys, i am screaming. 'liam'—the guy who literally disappeared off the face of the earth two years ago—just slid into my dms. no apology. no 'i’m sorry i left you on read for 700 days.' just 'hey, saw you got a new dog, cute.' i’m so tempted to reply because i still want closure, but my friends say he’s just Submarining because his latest situationship crashed. should i ignore or get my petty revenge?"

The Breakdown:

  • He Said: Liam is bored. He’s "checking his traps" to see who is still an easy ego-boost.
  • She Said: She’s looking for a "why" that he will never give her.

The Us In The Real Solution: Closure doesn't come from the person who hurt you; it comes from you. Replying to a Submarine text just gives them permission to ghost you again. Block him. Your 2026 energy is too expensive for a 2024 mistake.